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by Jan Yager Ph.D.

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Jan Yager Ph.D.

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978-0743211451

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0743211456

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English

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Touchstone (July 9, 2002)

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Self-Help

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Relationships

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WHEN FRIENDSHIP HURTS, by sociologist Jan Yager, made me realize what true friendship is and how to cope with disappointing . The truth is, before I read this book I had no idea friends could betray each other in so many ways

WHEN FRIENDSHIP HURTS, by sociologist Jan Yager, made me realize what true friendship is and how to cope with disappointing or destructive relationships that thwart the trust, empathy, and honesty real friends offer. It provides positive opinions, inspirational stories, and insightful advice, just as as a best friend should. The truth is, before I read this book I had no idea friends could betray each other in so many ways. This book is truly a very revealing look at all aspects of friendship from workplace friends to personal friends to casual friends to best friends. There is also thankfully ways to save a friendship which I could appreciate.

How to stop obsessing about a failed friendship.

Read unlimited books and audiobooks on the web, iPad, iPhone and Android. How to stop obsessing about a failed friendship. The first highly prescriptive book to focus on the complexities of friendship, When Friendship Hurts demonstrates how, why, and when to let go of bad friends and how to develop the positive friendships that enrich our lives on every level. For everyone who has ever wondered about friends who betray, hurt, or reject them, this authoritative book provides invaluable insights and advice to resolve the problem once and for all. Read on the Scribd mobile app.

In When Friendship Hurts, Jan Yager, recognized internationally as a leading expert on friendship, explores what causes friendships to falter and explains how to mend them - or end them. In this straightforward, illuminating book filled with dozens of quizzes and real-life examples, Yager covers all the bases, including: The twenty-one types of negative friends - a rogues' gallery featuring such familiar types as the Blood-sucker, the Fault-finder, the Promise Breaker, and the Copycat. How to recognize destructive friends as well as how to find ideal ones. e-mail effect - how electronic communication has changed friendships for both the better and the worse The misuse of friendship at work - how to deal with a co-worker's lies, deceit, or attempts at revenge How to stop obsessing about a failed friendship And much more The first highly prescriptive book to focus on the complexities of friendship

Author, speaker, and sociologist Yager presents her second book on friendships (after Friendshifts), focusing here on identifying and dealing with its negative aspects, including betrayals, abandonment, and any other type of behavior that causes hurt.

How to Respond to Betrayal and Hurt in our Friendships - Продолжительность: 7:44 Shasta Nelson; Friendship Expert Recommended for you. 7:44. Surviving a Friendship Break-Up: How to Recover from Losing a Friend - Продолжительность: 11:53 Shasta Nelson; Friendship Expert Recommended for you. 11:53. Knowing when to let go of a friendship - Продолжительность: 4:43 Becky Walsh Recommended for you. 4:43. 7 Signs Your Friendship Has Become Toxic - Продолжительность: 8:21 BRIGHT SIDE Recommended for you. 8:21.

In When Friendship Hurts, Jan Yager, recognized internationally as a leading expert on friendship, explores what .

In When Friendship Hurts, Jan Yager, recognized internationally as a leading expert on friendship, explores what causes. effect - how electronic communication has changed friendships for both the better and the worse The misuse of friendship at work - how to deal with a co-worker's lies, deceit, or attempts at revenge How to stop obsessing about a failed friendship And much more The first highly prescriptive book to focus on the complexities of friendship, When Friendship Hurts demonstrates how, why

Written by Jan Yager P. When Friendship Hurts.

Written by Jan Yager P. How to Deal with Friends Who Betray, Abandon, or Wound You. By: Jan Yager P. Narrated by: Tanya Eby. Length: 7 hrs and 30 mins.

Yager, who has a P. in sociology, concedes that in most instances of a rekindled friendship, the bond may not be as intimate as it was before the breakup. However, she has observed cases where the friendship does intensify after a reconciliation

Yager, who has a P. However, she has observed cases where the friendship does intensify after a reconciliation. Although it doesn’t happen as often, in those cases, it was worth the time and effort to reach out. It takes two to start, and maintain, a friendship, but only one to end it, Dr. Yager said.

"HOW COULD YOU DO THAT TO ME?" We've all had friendships that have gone bad. Whether it takes the form of a simple yet inexplicable estrangement or a devastating betrayal, a failed friendship can make your life miserable, threaten your success at work or school, and even undermine your romantic relationships. Finally there is help. In When Friendship Hurts, Jan Yager, recognized internationally as a leading expert on friendship, explores what causes friendships to falter and explains how to mend them -- or end them. In this straightforward, illuminating book filled with dozens of quizzes and real-life examples, Yager covers all the bases, including: The twenty-one types of negative friends -- a rogues' gallery featuring such familiar types as the Blood-sucker, the Fault-finder, the Promise Breaker, and the Copycat How to recognize destructive friends as well as how to find ideal ones The e-mail effect -- how electronic communication has changed friendships for both the better and the worse The misuse of friendship at work -- how to deal with a co-worker's lies, deceit, or attempts at revenge How to stop obsessing about a failed friendship And much more The first highly prescriptive book to focus on the complexities of friendship, When Friendship Hurts demonstrates how, why, and when to let go of bad friends and how to develop the positive friendships that enrich our lives on every level. For everyone who has ever wondered about friends who betray, hurt, or reject them, this authoritative book provides invaluable insights and advice to resolve the problem once and for all.

Whitehammer

Unfortunately the world is full of people who lack self-awareness (or at least we develop it at vastly different rates), so you may find yourself having to be very patient with those around you who are not so interested in knowing themselves.

No friend is perfect and ultimately most of us manage relationships that have their disadvantages; in some cases we tolerate toxic friendships for too long when we should in fact be ending them.

I liked the thoughtful and sympathetic tone of this author immediately. Her methodical approach provides a useful framework and objectivity for assessing your friendships, especially useful in our complex and emotional personal lives, or if your inner voice is telling you something is wrong. This is a likable and accessible book that is very easy to get through.

The author gives a series of amusing true-life case-studies and scenarios from her research and experience which provide food for thought. She also summarizes the important points in a variety of common situations that will help to crystallize the way you think about the people in your life. You will also find yourself reflecting on your own behaviour and how to be a better friend. Her advice about how to conduct online friendships pre-dates facebook, yet still manages to be relevant.

She systematizes her points into lists, allowing an organized analysis of your friendships; she also gives helpful advice on your options and recommends useful ways of managing difficult scenarios.

Mr_KiLLaURa

I bought this book in November of 2015 because I had doubts about a friendship of mine that I valued and yet had the queasy feeling was toxic for me. The very fact I bought this book was verification for myself that something was amiss. If you are searching for a book like this, there's a reason. Listen to your intuition. The friendship dragged on for a while longer until I finally ended the friendship in an honest, kind, loving, and yet truthful way. Chapter 6 of this book is helpful in that regard.

riki

I called on this book when I needed it the most. I lived through many kinds of friendships that have ended is some catastrophic ways where I always found myself as the victim with the most to lose. This book helped me to see and identify the negative types of friendship patterns that I was getting into, so that in the future I will do my best not to make the same mistakes of involving myself with people like that again. I'm relatively young compared to a lot of people that the author interviewed (25 years old) and I now have one close friendship and a few casual friends that actually make sense according the guidelines of the book to keep around. It was worth just to understand the journey of the author through the many random experiences of those she studied and surveyed. Really, thank you for writing this book.

Ranterl

WHEN FRIENDSHIP HURTS, by sociologist Jan Yager, made me realize what true friendship is and how to cope with disappointing or destructive relationships that thwart the trust, empathy, and honesty real friends offer. It provides positive opinions, inspirational stories, and insightful advice, just as as a best friend should. I was not aware of the 21 different types of potentially negative friends I could have, and these classifications were a necessity in learning out how to deal with the pseudo fair-weather friend I realized I had but never understood why I felt the need to halt my relationship with her. I highly recommend this book for all age groups.

Anararius

I have always been a very helpful person. Thought folks appreciated that but had that A-Ha moment and found out otherwise. This book helped me get a level set on what a friend really is and the different levels of friendship based on trust and sharing. From what I learned in this book along with other books purchased via Amazon, I decided to cut out, cut off, several jerks from my life, surely not easy as I was really interested in some of them. Other folks expressed I have made a mistake but I'm holding my ground as I no longer agree with their logic and have learned I am the only one who really looks out for me.

MEGA FREEDY

Loved this book she really got to the bottom of patterns of behaviour with different types of people there are that you can befriend. Even you may see a little bit of toxicity in yourself by reading this book. She makes you look internally at why you are drawn to certain people. What can go wrong how to handle communication more effectively. This made book made me feel normal but I can now be careful at what I say and who I befriend. Also that you do change and grow apart recommend this if you are feeling unnormal!!!

Acrobat

Have experienced having a frienemy and the signs fit almost to a T. The problem is you come to love some things about them but then when you see what has been going on behind the scenes it makes you a little sad. I chalk it up to a lot of insecurity. I still love this friend but do keep my distance as far as too much time together and watch what I say.

I've started reading this book. I'm no where near finished, but in the first chapter it helps to explain different types of friendships in this new technological age. Well written, I'm enjoying reading. For anyone who feels friendships aren't what they used to be, this book will help!

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